Development of any country depends on developed family. A developed family is one where thoughts of each and every person are similar or supportive. This might not be the case with most families as each and every person is programmed by different Groups of people , TV, Newspaper & Media. We cannot prove ourselves better by comparing us with our family members. We cannot prove ourselves best by comparing us with our friends and relatives. Because the idea of proving to be best will ultimately prove that you are not and trying to be one. If you are trying to be one, then whats the reason ? You cannot make yourselves better by insulting others. Better human being guide himself at the time of agitation and procrastinate to understand that it is his state of mind which is destructive in that particular time range. According to saints we have to create awareness of non-duality while being captured by destructive feeling of comparison. You have to practice unity in your daily life, in your family. Make changes to definitions stored in your mind and heart. New definitions will make your life successful and happier. The better person is just like a mouth. It never perform discrimination while eating food and supplies energy to each and every part of the body equally. In similar way if you are better, you will never compare yourself with your loved ones as each and every person around you is just like your body part and your existence as human being is contributed by each one of it. So as a “mouth” if you are insulting your hand and not delivering what it needs, then it would be your lose. Each and every person in our daily life is part of our body and we cannot prove ourselves better than other, as both body parts are best in their karmas allotted by supreme power. Lets keep this example in our mind and start with a new life and wisdom.
